my love language is affirmation

There are 5 love languages and I have come to realise that my love language is words of affirmation. I need to hear I’m doing well and that I’m loved else I fall into a deep dark hole of self doubt and loathing. I don’t talk properly to myself, I struggle with that, always have but […]

i’m definitely a 1 kid mama

Sorry to burst anyone’s bubble if they were hoping there’d be a sibling fysh one day but *pop* I am most definitely a 1 mama kid. Actually, rewind 7 years and I’d have told you the same thing, well I’d have said no kids, maybe maybe one. So I have the one and that’s where […]

send some mail

A while back I was given an opportunity to have a few cards printed at industry quality and rates. With cashflow being what it is I almost declined but then decided hell, run a print and get just a few of them. So I’d like to introduce a limited batch of cards of Charlie painted […]

November challenges

So I’ve decided to take on a little more than I can chew, maybe, probably. This November I’m going to be taking part in not just one but FOUR challenges! I’m not sure if I’m going to make them all but I’m going to try my damndest! What are they? Well… 1. The #blogvember challenge that Nikki […]

chapter 23

Read chapter 22 with greenlydia Urgh, I feel like I’ve been hit by a bus, everything hurts. I try open my eyes but they simply won’t budge, everything feels heavy and foggy. I’m going back to sleep. *** There’s something in my throat, why is there something in my throat, I cough and raise my […]

48 years ago today…

Today 48 years ago today one of the strongest souls I have met was born. She is an idol and my hero and I aspire to be like her on a daily basis. She’s the soul who survived a colic firstborn and still saw the courage to have more kids and then went on to […]

sleeve update

For as long as I can remember I’ve wanted a sleeve but just never got around to it, mainly for financial reasons but I have an arrangement with the tattoo shop where I run their social media in exchange for ink. It works for both of us and it also means I get my sleeve… […]