my love language is affirmation

There are 5 love languages and I have come to realise that my love language is words of affirmation. I need to hear I’m doing well and that I’m loved else I fall into a deep dark hole of self doubt and loathing. I don’t talk properly to myself, I struggle with that, always have but […]

i’m definitely a 1 kid mama

Sorry to burst anyone’s bubble if they were hoping there’d be a sibling fysh one day but *pop* I am most definitely a 1 mama kid. Actually, rewind 7 years and I’d have told you the same thing, well I’d have said no kids, maybe maybe one. So I have the one and that’s where […]

birthday happies to The Person

There’s this soul that mine connects with and loves wholly. It’s beautiful, determined and has the childlike desire to learn everything. And as a bonus it comes packaged as one seriously good looking human being. He’s my friend, my love and happy maker. And today I get to celebrate his birth into this world. Happy […]

bring the funk junk swop

I attended my very first of the infamous junk swops arranged by Meg from Mind The Curves and I throughly enjoyed every minute of it! So I walked into her house with 3 rather large tog bags full of clothing that I sorted out my cupboard that I don’t wear (yes I’m a bit of […]

one of those tough times

Yesterday the biodads sister came around to fetch Fysh for sushi. My child LOVES sushi and gifts. She bribed him (I’m his mother, only I’m allowed to bribe him) with both but he refused to go with her. I have no idea why, out of that entire family she’s the only one who’s ever actually […]

nerd alert

Up until last year I had watched one star wars movie, I think it was the first one (with jajabinx) it’d been the only one and I’d never had an inclination to watch the rest of them. And then The Person came along and pretty much “forced” me to watch the series. Now Fysh and […]

because @stylebar makes me look pretty

I was fortunate enough to have another session booked at stylebar as a treat for my birthday. Man I love them, they’re seriously my favourite hair salon, and you shouldn’t take that lightly cause I don’t trust just anyone with my hair, like I said before, I even cut it myself I’m so untrusting. But […]