my love language is affirmation

There are 5 love languages and I have come to realise that my love language is words of affirmation. I need to hear I’m doing well and that I’m loved else I fall into a deep dark hole of self doubt and loathing. I don’t talk properly to myself, I struggle with that, always have but […]

i’m definitely a 1 kid mama

Sorry to burst anyone’s bubble if they were hoping there’d be a sibling fysh one day but *pop* I am most definitely a 1 mama kid. Actually, rewind 7 years and I’d have told you the same thing, well I’d have said no kids, maybe maybe one. So I have the one and that’s where […]

the death of a loved one

I’ve been meaning to write this since it happened last week but I haven’t gotten round to putting the words in my head down onto a post. I’ve written a few posts in my head and none of them do her justice which is why I’ve been quiet. We lost a family member Monday evening […]

birthday happies to The Person

There’s this soul that mine connects with and loves wholly. It’s beautiful, determined and has the childlike desire to learn everything. And as a bonus it comes packaged as one seriously good looking human being. He’s my friend, my love and happy maker. And today I get to celebrate his birth into this world. Happy […]

laziest day ever

It’s a Youth day which makes it a public holiday but you know that whole working for yourself means no holidays gig? Well I decided stuff it I’m taking a holiday day and I did nothing but draw and watch movies with Fysh. Okay so maybe it wasn’t all that willingly taken, having Fysh at […]